I'm all ears and yeah, lay it on me. Let's see what we can do to help.

So where do I start? Like I said in the call-in, I'm getting divorced to a Ukrainian refugee who's in Ukraine right now during the war to change her name to my name.

She's been there for months. I decided a few months after she went down

there that I couldn't make this marriage work anymore. And now she's not responding.

And I guess there's a lot of ways this conversation could go. You'd go to the complexities of the divorce, but I was also interested to try to gain some

self-awareness as to why I kind of fell for a quick marriage.

And, you know, if there's anything I can kind of self-awareness I you gain for improving my relationships in the future.

Right. Yeah, well, I guess a little bit, how old are you, and how long have you known the woman and how did the relationship start and all that kind of good stuff?

So I'm 26. She's 21.

We met

almost a year ago

here in Germany. I work

I won't, I'll try not to get into

too many specifics because it'll be kind of obvious

what I do if I say, but I work for. Yeah, no,

stay off names. Yeah, stay off names and places.

Yeah, that's fine. But go ahead.

Yeah, so I met her here while I'm living in Germany, but I am actually American,

so eventually I will go back.

So, yeah, it was about a year ago.

We met online, started dating, and then I want to say about three months into it,

we proposed.

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