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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

575 - I’ll Never Be Their First Priority: Listener Q&A

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Multiamory, LLC

Society & Culture, Sexuality, Education, Health & Fitness, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.9970 Ratings

🗓️ 14 April 2026

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Summary

This week we're answering a question from a listener in another Q&A episode. We're going to be diving into feeling like you're never a priority for your partner, and what to do when you're kept a secret from friends and family.If you'd like a question of yours answered on a future Q&A episode, visit multiamory.com/questions.Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Get 10% off sexual health supplements at vb.health with promo code MULTI.Whatever you want to learn, MasterClass has something for you, taught by experts in their fields. Support the show and get an exclusive 15% offer at multiamory.link/masterclass.Skillshare is an online learning community with thousands of classes for creators. Everything from graphic design and video editing to photography, writing, and business. Get a free month of Skilllshare at multiamory.link/skillshare.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

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0:03.0

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0:18.0

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0:20.0

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0:23.9

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0:26.2

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0:28.2

Iron contributes to reduction of tightness and fatigue.

0:33.1

It makes me think of the Gottman Institute perpetual problems that happen in relationships, which, as we know, most problems are perpetual.

0:43.3

Sometimes these problems really do become what the Gottman's called gridlocked, and that means that there's a lot of pain, a lot of distrust, a lot of anger, a lot of resentment that can show up because of the feelings around these problems and the fact that the two of you can't seem to like see eye to eye when speaking about these problems and it comes up often.

1:06.2

And I think that exactly what you said at the beginning, Dedegger, like the cost-benefit analysis of this relationship and thinking about these problems, if they never changed, is this sustainable?

1:18.3

Is this something that I want to continue being a part of?

1:21.5

Because there is a very good chance, I think, from looking at all of this.

1:26.3

This may never change.

1:29.7

Welcome to the Multiamery Podcast. I'm Jace. I'm Emily. And I'm Dedeker. We believe in looking

1:37.0

to the future of relationships, not maintaining the status quo of the past. Whether you're

1:42.6

monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do

1:47.5

relationships differently, we see you, and we're here for you.

1:52.3

FOMS I know I did.

1:59.2

Forcing me to form myself to fit.

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