574 - How to Make Calendaring Not Suck

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Multiamory, LLC

Society & Culture, Sexuality, Education, Health & Fitness, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.9 • 970 Ratings

🗓️ 7 April 2026

⏱️ 72 minutes

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Summary

Today we're covering a topic that causes a lot of friction in a lot of relationships: scheduling. Sometimes, coordinating time with people we love - whether it's family, partners, or friends - feels impossible. And it turns out, it actually is impossible to do perfectly. We're going to be delving into why scheduling feels so terrible, some of the research that reveals what happens when couples share their calendars, and of course, some actionable ways to make calendaring more tolerable in the future. Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Quality lube is essential for good sexual experiences. Try our absolute favorite, Uberlube and get 10% off plus free shipping with promo code MULTIAMORY,Take Beducated's 2-minute quiz and get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness at beduc.at/pd2615-multiamoryWhatever you want to learn, MasterClass has something for you, taught by experts in their fields. Support the show and get an exclusive 15% offer at multiamory.link/masterclass.Skillshare is an online learning community with thousands of classes for creators. Everything from graphic design and video editing to photography, writing, and business. Get a free month of Skilllshare at multiamory.link/skillshare.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	There's no one like you, and there never will be.
0:03.0	From the producer of Bohemian Rhapsody.
0:05.0	There are many legends, but there was only one.
0:11.0	Michael in IMAX and Cinema's Wednesday, April 22.
0:18.0	I think there's a lot of dynamics there to be aware of, which leads us to a study called
0:23.0	I Love You, let's share calendars.
0:25.5	They looked at people who are Google Calendar users.
0:28.4	So they were kind of looking at like how do just diads manage calendaring together and how do
0:33.3	they deal with sharing calendars?
0:35.9	And what they found is that what we've been talking about, it's not just a logistical problem,
0:40.3	it's an emotional issue.
0:41.3	When you share a calendar with people and you put an event on your calendar that they can see
0:47.3	that says dinner with mom, 6 p.m., this isn't just logistics, it's also communicating to them
0:53.3	your priorities, your obligations,
0:56.3	what you value, what's important to you of the things that get written down versus the things
1:01.2	that don't get written down. Welcome to the Multi-Amory podcast. I'm Jace. I'm Emily. And I'm
1:09.4	Dedeker. We believe in looking to the future of relationships,
1:13.3	not maintaining the status quo of the past.
1:16.5	Whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating,
1:20.7	or if you just do relationships differently,
1:23.3	we see you, and we're here for you.
1:26.5	Fongs, I know, I did. We see you, and we're here for you.
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