Let's say you are at a lunch and you allow that person's attitude to affect you, then you take it and then you take it to somebody else.

And then it's literally...

Right? And then now you're in the car, now you're honking your horn and now it's all the thing when you could have stopped it

and you could have changed somebody's somebody else's trajectory in that moment of who that person's going to see, the waiter.

You have that power.

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This is the Rachel Hollis podcast. My family trying to find a nice way to just say that we never had much money but that's just what it was I never had much money

So a very regular meal for our family was a pot of beans like a pot of pinto beans. Yeah My mom made it all the time and I hated those beans.

I just, from the time I was little, I hate, I thought they were so disgusting.

Now I can't tell you anything that's more delicious. It's so comforting to me. I love beans,

but as a kid I was like never. I will eat nothing rather than eat the beans.

See I love beans. My mother doesn't like beans for that very reason she went to a

boarding school and they always served beans really and she said she's even I

she's at a senior she's at a senior community and she was eating a soup and here she I'm looking at her pick out all the books

She is like no I refuse. Yeah, yeah. I love being so so in New York when I was feeling homesick,

I would make a pot of Baines, grains, and cornbread.

Because where are you from originally?

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