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Freedomain with Stefan Molyneux

5718 The Truth About 'Gentle Parenting'

Freedomain with Stefan Molyneux

Stefan Molyneux

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🗓️ 6 November 2024

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, I explore the subtle differences between gentle parenting and peaceful parenting. While peaceful parenting focuses on a non-violent approach, gentle parenting aims to create emotional connections, which can lead to pressure and feelings of inadequacy for parents. Through personal anecdotes, I illustrate how children reflect adult behaviors, emphasizing the significance of active listening to prevent escalated meltdowns. I discuss the evolution of parenting strategies, cautioning against overly permissive interpretations of gentle parenting that lack necessary boundaries. I critique societal pressures and the expectations created by social media, suggesting that a “sturdy parenting” model offers a balanced approach. This framework encourages genuine listening while maintaining parental authority, ultimately fostering healthier family dynamics and equipping children to navigate their emotions effectively.

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0:00.0

Yo, yo, good morning, everybody.

0:01.6

This is M. M. On you from Freedom Main.

0:03.0

So a couple of minutes on gentle parenting.

0:05.0

Gentle parenting to me is different from peaceful parenting.

0:10.2

So peaceful parenting is peace, right, which is do not use violence or intimidation

0:15.5

or size of strength or control or bullying or aggression to get your way. So it just says peace,

0:23.1

right? It's not a positive prescription, right? You can negotiate your way out of conflicts

0:30.2

just about any way. So basically it's the equivalent of don't steal, right? So if you have a rule

0:35.5

called don't steal, it says you can acquire property in any legitimate way, you just can't steal, right? So if you have a rule called don't steal, it says you can acquire property

0:39.2

in any legitimate way, you just can't steal, right? That's fairly reasonable, right? And so

0:44.7

peaceful parenting simply says, use peace, right? Do not use violence or aggression, size,

0:52.3

strength, intimidation in your dealings with others.

0:55.9

It is consistent with how you're supposed to deal with adults, of course.

0:59.7

So this is why I called it peaceful parenting.

1:02.4

Now, gentle parenting, though, is a positive prescription, right?

1:06.6

So thou shalt not steal is a negative prescription, which a thou shalt not means you can do anything else, right?

1:17.0

Just don't steal, and you can do anything else.

1:19.1

Now, general parenting, though, is a positive prescription, right?

1:23.8

So if I said that the only way to be moral is to be in a profession where you are nice and helpful

1:37.2

to the sick and elderly right you have to be nice and gentle to the sick and elderly. Well, that would be a

1:45.0

positive prescription, and that would be tyrannical, right? So gentle parenting is tyrannical,

1:51.0

because how are you supposed to know that gentleness is the right response? So, for instance,

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