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Stephen Hollandian from Free Domain.

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Hi Steph, I just wanted to say despite listening to you for close to a decade now.

I have only recently started to feel comfortable with the idea that other people's negative emotions

do not necessarily and in most cases have nothing to do with me or my actions, including my parents. Logically I've known this for a while, thanks to you, but it's only recently that it feels

like I'm beginning to feel it and believe it.

I actually found humor, after initially feeling some guilt about a random angry person I came across this morning.

Well I think the humor came from my own realization of the absurdity of feeling guilt or anger because of someone else's actions or emotional state who doesn't know me and

has nothing to do with me.

My parents sort of fit this category, actually.

For my question, when you encounter scenarios like this, i.e. random angry person, someone

calls you rude over a simple misunderstanding, how is that jolt of guilt or pain or shame

halted or sandboxed so it can be evaluated or is there not even

this jolt?

I think there is something fundamental I am missing about this.

Thanks a bunch, Steph. It's a very interesting question. I do appreciate it.

So here is what I would say. So when you encounter negative, destructive, harmful, abusive, whatever people,

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