5685 SAVE ME FROM MY SEXLESS MARRIAGE! Freedomain Call In

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Stefan Molyneux

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🗓️ 12 October 2024

⏱️ 152 minutes

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"Hello Stefan, I have been contemplating contacting you for almost 2 years. I have been in a sexless marriage for the past 6 years. I do not see divorce as an option since we have 2 kids together and I will sacrifice all of my please and happiness for the well being of my children. I tried talking to my wife about this multiple times, eventually we end up having sex but there is no joy or connection coming from her. It's seems like it's a chore she has to do, occasionally. It was always me who initiated sex for the first 5 years. About 95% of the time I would be shut down by: is that all you think about, I'm tired, I have a headache, it's late. So I gave up and stopped initiating sex, now I'm lucky to have sex once every 2-3 months. I have resorted to watching porn for sexual release. I would like to add that I am the sole breadwinner of the family. I'm in my mid 30s and She is in her early 30s. She does not have to work, or worry about any bills. I take care of all the taxes, paperwork, billing, health insurance, etc. I can say we are middle class and we are not struggling financially. I have tried to move my in my career to supervisor or management position but I don't have the drive or feel like I can because I get belittled and told what to do constantly by my wife. I can honestly say that I know I am providing for her and protecting the our family in the time of need. I would do anything for her if she asked but she refuses to do the same for me I would love to have a conversation with you to discuss my flaws and what I may be doing wrong in order to fix this. I honestly can't go on living in a sexless marriage for any longer. Thank you for your time and all of the knowledge you bring forward."

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0:00.0	Hello, Stephan. I've been contemplating contact you for almost two years. I have been in a sexless marriage for the past six years.
0:07.0	I do not see divorce as an option since we have two kids together and I will sacrifice all of my pleasure and happiness for the well-being of my children.
0:16.0	I tried talking to my wife about this multiple times, eventually we end up having sex, but there is no joy or connection coming from her.
0:24.8	It seems like it's a chore.
0:26.4	She has to do occasionally.
0:29.5	It was always me who initiated sex for the first five years,
0:32.8	about 95% of the time, I will be shut down by,
0:36.5	it's, I will be shut down by, it's all you think about,
0:40.0	I'm tired, have a headache, it's late. So I gave up and stop initiating sex. Now I'm lucky to have
0:46.7	sex once every two to three months. I have resorted to watching porn or sexual release. I would like to add that I am sole
0:55.0	breadwinner of the family. I'm in my mid 30s and she is in her early 30s. She does
1:01.4	not have to work or worry about any bills. I take care of all of the taxes, paperwork, billing, health insurance, etc.
1:07.0	I can say we are middle class and we are not struggling financially. I have tried to move my in my move up in my career to supervisor or management position, but I don't have the drive to or feel like I can because I get
1:25.4	belittled and told what to do constantly by my wife. I can honestly say that I know I am providing for her and protecting her,
1:35.0	protecting our family in the time of need. I would do anything for her if she
1:40.0	asked, but she refuses to do the same for me.
1:43.2	I would love to have a conversation with you
1:45.8	to discuss my flaws and what I may be doing wrong
1:50.2	in order to fix this.
1:51.4	I honestly can't go on living in a sexless marriage for any longer.
1:55.2	Thank you for your time and all the knowledge you are bringing forward.
1:59.2	I'm, yeah, I'm so sorry about this situation. It's very, very tough. As a man, of course, it would be tough for a woman, I'm sure as well, so I really do sympathize and hopefully we can do some useful stuff with this not
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