All right, good money everybody.

Stephanie Melanie from Free Domain.

Questions from Free Domain. Locals.

Thank you, of course, for your great queries.

And we're starting with, hi, Steph.

I noticed that some people react to the abuse of their parents by absorbing the same behaviors,

while others by quote, reacting to it slash becoming dependent to manage the same kinds of people.

What do you think is the main driver? to manage the same kinds of people.

What do you think is the main driver

to the different reactions?

Thanks for your great work.

And thanks for your great question.

I was, I had to read it a couple of times to make sure I understood it. I think I have it and hopefully this will or this answer will make some kind of sense.

Fingers crossed, we can always hope.

So if I would rephrase the question,

I think you're saying that the most common reactions to being abused as a child

are either to become an abuser or to end up managing abusers and this pattern continues,

right? So a guy who is, has an abusive mother, he's going to end up

managing crazy women for the rest of his life, but not become a direct abuser himself in the same way, whereas a man who has an abusive parent,

say mother, may actually become a screamer and an abuser himself.

So I think a lot of times if you look at sort of the modern cock slash sim phenomenon, then what you can see is we have a lot of men who are heavily focused on over-pleasing women,

over-pleasing women. So in general, the most common response for a man with an abusive mother and no father is for him to become a sim, right? A sims. it's not anything to do with human nature it's not this sort of

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