Lay it on me friends, how can I best help?

Okay, I guess should I start by reading you what I wrote?

That sounds good.

Okay, I need some tools to deal with ease to which the volume my voice when I talk with others.

My wife says it sounds like I'm angry but when I'm aware of this volume increase afterwards

I don't really feel angry. Sometimes it's when I'm

passionate or excited about a subject and other times it's out of frustration or my

inability to get others to understand me.

I don't know if there is a single cause

and I'm not even aware of it at the start

and often not for a while when it's happening.

But I do know that I would like to stop doing it so people don't want to because people don't really want to be around someone who sounds angry.

My wife believes, as I do now, that I may have some traits of autism.

I do take most things people say literally and often don't pick up on nonverbal communication

from other.

But even if this is true that some of its causes autism or something from my childhood that doesn't directly present

a solution to help me modify my behavior at this time.

Possibly it's related, possibly related is that I kind of moralize things.

For instance if a salesman says something to get a sale and I later find out it's not true,

I will consider him a liar and won't want to deal with him further.

I listened to your show the other day about shyness and I drew a parallel to my behavior that I've never considered.

And that is that it's kind of arrogant of me to expect others to want to

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