I've listened to you for a long time so it's a little surreal to talk to you.

Hopefully it doesn't stay too surreal. It doesn't get weirder and weirder hopefully.

I'm sure we'll avoid that but yeah go ahead.

I think that the first there's like kind of two things I think I'd like to get out of this call as much as we're able is I want to be like a better wife and a better

mother and I feel like there's conflicts in my husband and my relationship that are often due to outside

us factors but then they're affecting our kids and our family.

Because yeah sometimes we're fighting and that's not helpful for our family.

And anyway, I get that.

And what are you guys fighting about.

There's a lot of it is driven by I think our extended families.

Sorry and I'm sorry I was completely imprecise in my question, my apologies.

What's the surface level stuff that you're fighting about, you know, like people fight about dishes or money or sex or like, what's the surface level stuff that you guys are fighting about how do the

topics manifest? I would say it's often like I got really hungry and wanted to go like through the Taco Bell

drive through to have something to eat like immediately and then through the

to talk about the bell drive through to have something to eat like immediately and then he

I like I made I like said it multiple times and then one of the kids said they wanted to go

to a different restaurant for lunch and then he was like oh great

let's go hit up this other restaurant and then we had to wait too long to get our

food and then I got really upset and it as a recent example.

Okay, no, that's good.

No, that's good.

I appreciate it.

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