I'll just start then. We did the call in September of 21, society sides with abusers,

and much has happened since then. In many ways, life has improved. The topics we spoke about such as my relationship with my

brother, my weed addiction, and my academic and professional prospects have

improved and most importantly I did a year in therapy and made some significant progress

and gained a greater understanding of myself. I have also been doing well financially as I have been able to invest in a year of private high quality therapy

as well as having a savings spot of approximately 6,000 pounds.

And I'm using that as a deposit to get a mortgage on a flat.

There are two things that trouble me, however.

That is what I would like to discuss with you. The first

thing is my future career path. I have a law degree and I'm about to start the

final stage of qualifying as a solicitor. I'm worried about my first choice of field, criminal law,

specifically prosecution, and whether it is moral, realistic, and desirable.

Secondly, my romantic life has been far from ideal.

I'm bisexual and have had a string of one night stands and short relationships, for women and eight guys.

But when I look at my future, I wonder

whether if I will be able to achieve marriage

and a family, especially since there are some cultural, religious, and

racial considerations that make the UK not so optimal for me when it comes to

dating and marriage. Put it otherwise otherwise I look ahead and see the

potential to be an upper middle class prosecutor in the UK with a happy family but

then I look ahead and see a future in which I abandon this plan, don't meet the love of my life, and end up professionally and romantically lost, stuck in my assault crushing 9 to 5 working in finance with no partner and no kids in my 40s.

I'm also an agriculturalist. I have several allotments that I use to grow vegetables for myself and for selling to local

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