Hey there it's Steph, I just wanted to let you know this was a flash live stream that we did and it turned into an extremely savage and to some degree off putting but very instructive debate and so we do the debate and then we do the analysis of it right

afterwards so I just wanted to mention that up front before you start kicking in

much much interesting stuff very worth listening to and thanks again, of course, everyone

for all of your support of the show. So yes, hi everybody. Little flash live stream. Hope that you're doing well. Thank you for your support and interest in this magnificent

philosophy conversation. And I wanted to talk a little bit about something I mentioned yesterday

in my grandiose topless show which has yet to be released and

it has something to do with this question of shyness of shyness. Now, if something persists in general, it is because the opposite belief is held.

If something persists, the opposite belief is held.

So if you think of someone who's promiscuous, right?

Let's just say a woman who's promiscuous,

well she has some belief that promiscuity is a plus and a positive adds value, and of course we act in a way that we hope will make us happy.

And promiscuity doesn't lead to happiness, neither for men nor for women, but in particular for women,

because a man has time later in life to fix these kinds of mistakes, right?

A man later in life can say, oh, I shouldn't have done that, you know, when he's 30 or 35 even. I mean I really only started my business career

when I was 27 or 28. So I was 10 years an adult now. I spent a couple of years in theater school. I spent a couple of years doing an English literature

degree, I spent a couple of years doing a history degree, I spent a year working, I spent a year

a little bit more than a year in fact, year and a half almost doing a master's degree and so you know was I faffin around a little yeah I'd say so I was trying to find a good. I basically was biting time until I could podcast.

I was killing time until I could podcast.

That was really all that was going on, sort of in hindsight.

And so, and I didn't get married until I was in my 30s, and I'm fine. I mean, I'm fine.

I would like to have had more kids, but overall things are great right so I had time to recover to to

hit my traction to get my groove on and to make things work but for women of course

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