So I felt the connection with show 5-core 8-4, which is why men won't commit to women in the 30s.

And I felt the connection to the show and I felt very well describes my experiences dating.

I'm a gentleman in my early early 30s and I really struggled to find someone that was family oriented and someone that I think I could connect with and I've become a little jaded towards young women given the plethora bad experiences I've had.

Last week I invested in a matchmaking service and I'm hoping that'll lead to some success.

We haven't started yet, but every interaction I had when looking for a matchmaking service I would get pushback when I

expressed my preference to marry a woman younger than 30 and I wasn't able to find a service of that had any men at all. Basically all women in these services.

And so a little concern. You mean like behind the desk like not?

Right you mean sort of someone you'd be talking to to set up your

dating profile or you're like you're all the matchmaker the all the people at work in the companies yeah I mean that's

not super shocking right I mean that would be sort of a female role as a whole right?

No and I I wasn't so maybe there's a market opportunity for male male match.

Well yeah I mean I wasn't I wasn't upset to find mostly female it was more like I was upset I couldn't find a single man anywhere in any of the companies right right

and And so on a second point, given my sort of conservative family background and leanings.

I had a lot of people recommend

I join a church group.

I've historically resisted this

because I'm not religious

and I feel there's some degree of inherent deception if I pursue someone

if I don't follow a denomination or a gospel. But I recently reached out to some church groups, particularly just to

for social groups and one of the male ministers I reached out to he actually reiterated a lot of the points from the

podcast around having difficulty connecting the young men that he supports and to me it was sorry could I just do to me I

know that this is like not your necessarily your gig for but this I mean if you could find whatever block it is in your mind and

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