551 - My Partner Dates People Just Like Me: Listener Q&A

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

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4.9 • 970 Ratings

🗓️ 14 October 2025

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Today we're tackling a question from a listener about managing jealousy and fear around a relationship where your partner dates other people like you. We'll be discussing insecurity, jealousy, self-love, and more while we break down this question and try to provide actionable advice. If you want your question answered on a future Q&A episode, consider joining our Supercast community!Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.com/join. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Whatever you want to learn, MasterClass has something for you, taught by experts in their fields. Support the show and keep learning at multiamory.link/masterclass.Skillshare is an online learning community with thousands of classes for creators. Everything from graphic design and video editing to photography, writing, and business. Get a free month of Skilllshare at multiamory.link/skillshare.Record your own podcast or videos with the same platform as us! Check out multiamory.link/riverside to try it yourself for free.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hey, everybody. This week is the last week of Open's 2025 Non-Monogamy Community Survey.
0:07.3	This is a survey that we have co-sponsored alongside the dating app field. It's on track to be the largest
0:13.3	research study of the non-monogamous community ever. It's being conducted by Dr. Amy Moore's from
0:19.1	Chapman University, and we really want you to be a part of it with us.
0:22.6	The survey takes about 20 to 30 minutes to complete, and it's open to anyone in the world.
0:28.7	Previous open surveys have helped pave the way for real protections and policy wins.
0:33.9	Your experiences become evidence that makes real change.
0:37.4	All responses are completely anonymous, and you can take it by going to multi-amory.com
0:42.2	slash survey.
0:43.6	The survey closes this Friday, October 19th, so be sure to take a moment to be part of this amazing
0:48.6	study and help make real change.
0:51.0	Multi-amory.com slash survey.
0:56.9	I think many of us kind of get wrapped up in a worry unit or I have to be thinking about
1:03.3	them all the time and what is it that they want to do or what is it that we want to do together.
1:07.8	But if you can find things to do, whether that be stuff in your
1:12.6	own community that's maybe separate from them or with your own friends that, you know, don't
1:18.3	necessarily know them as well, or whatever it is, that you find time to be joyful in the
1:26.0	things that you love that are just for you.
1:29.3	I think that that is a great reminder for yourself that you were a person before them
1:36.3	and will still be a great person after them if that is what happens and that you can be okay
1:43.3	just being by yourself or just being with your group
1:48.0	of friends or your community or doing the things that you love to do.
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