Hello? Hey, how you doing?

How you doing, Steph?

I am well, I am well. Nice to connect.

I'm glad we could find a time today.

Thank you for joining at short notice.

So yeah, I'm all ears. How can I mean I remember the email of course, but how can I best help?

Yes, sir. Well, like I said in the call in request, you know, when my wife was pregnant, you know, I would sometimes I would just get these these urges or

something to maybe to do something towards, you know, towards a baby in her in her stomach that, you know, would exactly be healthy for the baby.

And, you know, if I'm put in a,

in, you know, the sole caregiver position.

Like it's, I'm responsible for helping her,

assistant her to go to bed.

You know, I kind of have a short, short patience with that process.

And I mean, thank goodness my wife is always willing to do the extra work and like I'll tap out if it's too much.

But yeah. if it's too much.

But yeah, I believe I said, I just get these impulses to silence her, you know, by force.

Well, listen, it's a super brave thing to admit and I really admire your courage in talking about this stuff.

Because I mean there's not what you're expecting I assume and it's tough stuff to talk about but you know just

genuine and deep admiration for having the courage to talk about this. I really

really admire that. I just wanted to

sort of say that up front now when it comes to the sort of impulses that you have I mean

let's let's just start full dark, let's just go right down to the basement,

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