All right, so yes, I'm here to help, lay it on me, brother.

How can I best serve you?

Well, I guess you got a little bit of my email there about, I guess I titled it, navigating the epiphany phase. Are you familiar of what I'm getting at with that term?

I do, yeah, but I mean it's always a thing like I know what it means to me, but what matters is what it means to you.

So I'm all, I'm all the years.

You want to read the email or just tell me what's going on or how?

I'll just, I'll just give a recap. Basically I've been in a committed five year relationship

with a woman and she's now 29 years old and we haven't done things the right way

under the eyes of the church, her family, in aspects, my family too. We have a lot of flaws. There's a lot of volatility, but we're trying to work through them and we have we made a lot of a lot of progress.

It's

But she's reached a point in her life and I think many women in their life when they get to be this age,

you know, the clock's ticking.

They're looking back at the last, you know, 12 years of their life and think, wow, like, I've really messed up and then how do I fix this and if you only have a toolkit that has so many tools in it.

You revert to those and you try to fix the problem with those tools but I just don't think it can be enough sometimes and

she has reverted back to using her old toolbox and it's really put a strain. This is all

happening like literally this week.

And it's really starting to put a strain on things.

But as you know, I mean these issues are usually deeply intertwined into other deeper things. That's very abstract and I appreciate and I sympathize with what you're going through. I don't know what her old two box means.

Um... what her old two blocks means? Um, just being committed to an ideology like, you know, through, I think you're aware of

how Catholics do things.

They have a set, a very strict set of rules that are to be adhered to.

And it's an ideology that, which you commit to to and I think it's fairly black and white

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