My question is about my relationship with my girlfriend.

I'm in this place in my life where I've never been.

I have a lovely girlfriend.

I think I very much appreciate her and feel like she's a very, very valuable person in my life.

However, I'm not sure that she is the one for me, like the one that we

should live 80 years together, bring kids together. I want many kids. She wants kids, but not

as many. Because I'm not sure that she shares the values that I so much value.

I can go into that.

That's a very tough situation and I sympathize.

It's almost better to not like someone than to be in doubt about someone because

that at least you have

not this problem. So I sympathize with that. And I'm happy to hear if you want to tell me

what age range are you. You don't have to tell me. I'm 20s, mid 20s. Mid 20s, yes. Mid 20s. Okay.

And how long have you been going out with, can we call her Sarah? Is that okay?

Yes.

Okay, so how long have you been going out with Sarah?

Six months.

Six months.

Maybe just about seven right now.

So, yeah, hit me with the pluses and the minuses.

Obviously, there's enough plus there that is tormenting you and enough minuses there that the torment might be real. So what are the things that you like and the things that you don't like and all to that?

Sure. So I will tell, but just in case I will open my mail, so in case I forget something. So the plus is like, okay, she's the best one I had yet. That's for sure. That's by far. Um, she is very positive. She's very, um, um, yeah, just, uh, happy. She, um, she cares about me. She loves me. She, um, she cares about me.

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