Okay, I'm all the yes, hit me, hit me with how I can best help you.

All right, so I, my wife and I have two children. We're expecting her a third. We want to have as many as we can,

both in our mid, well she's in our mid-fins, I'm in my late 20s, and I want to make

sure I'm doing as much as I can to correctly raise them peacefully and also not mess them up.

My child was pretty good, but that's the main thing as far as like peaceful ways

of disciplining them if they're just blatantly disobedience.

And so yeah, that's it.

That's the main thing.

I can go into specific scenarios if you like that I've experienced with them.

Yeah, sorry, how old are your kids?

About three and one and a half, but pretty young.

Okay, I'm sorry, I don't mean to be, I don't mean to be like three and one and a half and you're talking about what

disobedience yeah like they they both especially the three year old he understands, he understands like, hey, come over here,

or put that down, or, you know, we got to go do this, or we can't buy that, and just refusing,

you know, he knows what I'm saying. And so that's, that's, that's, that's the main

example I would give. Okay, let's talk about, I guess, some specific instances and we'll see if we can throw the old peaceful parenting ball down the alley

Okay, sure so the other day

We were getting ready to go somewhere and he opened the we had the front door open but our screen door was shut but he knows I it. So he opened it and ran outside with his socks on.

And I said, wait, no, come back.

You're, we don't have your shoes on yet.

And he kept running.

I said, wait, stop.

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