training our kids that their opinion of their own experience matters more than my experience.

It's like, so I watch my kid play tennis.

Yeah, I could point out the gains that I see, but what's way more interesting is, what do you see?

Like, what did that experience mean to you?

Like, what were your gains?

How are you different from where you were before that tennis match?

And so like, rather than even needing to project

my opinion of the matter,

his opinion of his own gains

are infinitely more interesting and important than my opinion of his gains and

once he starts playing in that realm because he could even go in the gap about

worrying about what I think about his progress. Yeah I'm an external aspect

right I'm not him aspect. I'm not him. He just needs to measure himself backwards, his

perspective of his gains, his perspective of his growth. And me then just becoming curious and saying,

what did you learn? What are your gains? What did you see from that experience and helping him do that but vice versa

I'm doing it for myself.

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