So I was married for five years together with my ex for seven altogether and we got divorced last November.

And last November. And that is kind of a long story, but anyway, so I've been, let me think, where to go.

We got divorced and it was a, what's called, I'm sure you are aware, an amicable divorce which means we kind of figure things out on our

own we don't have to involve lawyers and all of that and her reasoning was she was unhappy and kind of that whole line of thinking.

And she, shortly thereafter, got a boyfriend, which of course means certain things.

And they were together for about a year and then she's actually had a baby with him and now they've split as soon as the baby was born he's gone and I only know this because she text me back she's sort of text to me again and I

part of the reason why I emailed in was, I don't know how it is with other people,

but for me, once I love someone, it never really goes away.

And she is in a really hard place right now.

And I know it's not really my responsibility at all but at the same time in my mind and maybe I think I was

starting to another friend of mine and he kind of thinks the same way, like once married, always married in the mind.

And I guess my big question, the big reason why I emailed in was,

I wonder which part of my body I'm thinking was to the speak because I keep thinking

she hasn't officially like asked me to kind of be part of now in words so much as by action be part of her life and

I'm really on the fence about whether or not to even engage.

In fact, I've kind of cut my text short whenever I text her about anything like whenever she's asking questions.

And so I guess my big my big question is that is kind of or a question for advice I get.

It's not is it a bad idea?

So speak.

And yeah, but.

Well, listen, that's a great question to ask,

and a courageous question to ask, and you said that there was a long story involved in the marriage.

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