Hello and welcome to the new mindset who this podcast, my name is Kase Kenney

Ath, Kase.Kennyi Instagram and this is my weekly podcast where I create short

no BS episodes dedicated to helping you become the person you're meant to be

leave your conflict zone and live a purposeful and fulfilling life.

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All right, welcome to episode 535. Hello, my friend. Welcome to a fresh new episode

of new mindset who this as always. Thank you so much for listening. Thank you for

supporting me and today. A bit of a mindset breakthrough I want to talk about in

regard to how we often talk ourselves out of asking for what we deserve in our

relationship because we think it's too much. We do this thing where we rationalize

what we're offered as being good enough and we ignore the fact that we deserve

to be loved like we want to be loved. We deserve to be loved in a way that

actually makes us feel loved. And even if someone is offering you elements of that,

even if they're giving their leaning into their love language, if that doesn't

make you feel loved, it's not too much to ask for more to ask for different to

have a conversation about it. But that's the trickiest part, right? In instances

where someone is indeed in their own way from their own place of comfort and

expectation from their own love language, they're trying to love you. They're

leaning into it, but it's not right for you. We feel very guilty for asking for

more. We feel selfish. We think we should just appreciate that they're trying,

that they're giving something that, hey, at least they're committed. It's human

nature 101 and we talk ourselves out of more. And frankly, I think that's why

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