It's the most wonderful time of the year.

Whether you look forward to shopping for your spouse

or feel intimidated by all of the options,

we're here to help.

We've curated an incredible list of gift ideas

for the two of you to have a very sexy holiday.

Go to one extraordinary marriage.com slash sexy to get your list today.

From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show.

Where being busy is overdone.

Romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork

out of wondering when you're going to get some.

I'm Tony Delorenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife, Elisa.

From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment.

Give us a call or text us on the Hug hotline at 858.765663 or send us an email to hugs at one extraordinary marriage.com.

In today's show we're looking at the impact of the statement if you love me on your marriage.

And as we start that, I want you to think about this quote that's been attributed to

anonymous that says expectations can be premeditated resentments.

It's just going to be something that we're thinking about here as we're looking

at that phrase, if you loved me. But first, we start each show with a hug, and a hug is an opportunity

for you to hear from someone in the one family whose marriage has experienced transformation.

And this hug comes from a Facebook message that we received that says, hello, I've recently

started listening to your podcast and I'm really enjoying them.

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