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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

530 - Why You Keep Having the Same Fight – 3 Toxic Patterns that Keep Us Stuck

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Multiamory, LLC

Sexuality, Self-improvement, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Education

4.9935 Ratings

🗓️ 20 May 2025

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

Today we're bringing back a popular episode on relationship conflict. We're talking about three different patterns that show up in conflicts, how to recognize which one is showing up for yourself, and discuss some ways to disrupt the pattern and create new choreography with your partner(s). Join Dedeker and Orit Krug for our polyamory somatic retreat in northern Spain (September 22-25, 2025) - sliding scale pricing available, use code MULTI when you apply at www.multiamory.com/retreat. Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Get 20% off your first order of the world's smartest cat litter at prettylitter.com/multiamory with promo code MULTIAMORY Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hello, multiamery folks and friends. Let's go to Spain together. That's right, Orit Krug and I are hosting a

0:07.2

somatic retreat, especially for polyamorous folks that's going to be in beautiful northern Spain

0:13.2

from September 22nd to the 25th, 2025. We're going to be spending four days together in a beautiful

0:20.6

natural setting, and Orit and I are going to guide you through somatic practices that can help shift long-held patterns and help you develop some powerful tools for navigating non-monogamy with more ease and confidence.

0:34.0

We handle all the details so that you can be fully present. Your accommodations are taken care of. You don't have to clean or cook. All your meals are taken care of. We really want people to feel as cared for as possible. You're welcome to come solo or to bring a partner or to bring all of your partners. Everybody is welcome. We also offer sliding scale pricing, and if

0:55.9

cost is a concern for you, please don't let that stop you from applying. We're happy to explore

1:00.3

options that work for you and for your financial situation. So we already have people signing up

1:06.7

for this one, which is nuts. We do have limited spots. So if you're interested, go to

1:11.9

multi-amory.com slash retreat. To apply today, mention the multi-amry podcast when you apply. Again,

1:18.4

that's multi-amory.com slash retreat. And I hope that I can see you in Spain.

1:25.2

Welcome to the multiiamery podcast.

1:28.7

I'm Jace.

1:29.7

I'm Emily.

1:30.9

And I'm Dedeker.

1:37.3

We believe in looking to the future of relationships, not maintaining the status quo of the past. Whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you, and we're here for you. Hello, Miltie.

2:03.3

Listeners, do you ever find yourself caught in the same argument with your partner over and over and over again?

2:11.9

I have to say that I feel very fortunate that right now I'm at a time of my life where I'm in

2:17.0

some of the most healthy,

2:18.8

high functioning relationships that I've ever had. And yet this still happens to me. There's still

2:24.2

these arguments that can just feel like they're playing out on repeat where you could even repeat

2:28.0

all the story beats to somebody else. And the topic maybe could change. You know, the topic could be about the dishes one day. It could be an

2:38.4

argument about your metamore the next day. It could be about finances another day. But somehow,

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