Okay, well, actually, I became exposed to your material, maybe like in 2012, 2013.

I watched a video from you called Putting Off Procrastination and it was pretty eye-opening

for me because it made me realize how my parents were actually treating me in reality

versus, you know, kind of, I guess the way it was justified to me and the way I had justified

it to myself, but it was a bit frightening for me at the time, so I wasn't, I kind of

stopped listening for a while and then recently I started getting back into it and so I finally

made the decision, unfortunately, 10 years too late to, but I guess it's never too late,

because I've been living with my parents for a long time. I'm 32 now and so I finally made

the decision to leave and so I've got an apartment and everything and currently in the process

of finalizing all that and so I'm just really, you know, I'm trying to commit my life to

to living more philosophically and cleaning up my life which is, you know, it's not an extreme

like mess, you know, there's a terrible going on right now, but I'm just trying to know

what's better I guess and so any advice that you could offer would be helpful.

Well, I mean, that's fairly general and I guess we can sort of narrow it or

specify it a little bit to see if we can provide more value so can you tell me a little bit about

your life as a child and your life as an adult? Sure, I was born in a city in South Florida.

You don't have to do geography just, yeah, just roughly.

Yeah, okay, so I was born to two parents. They were married, they've stayed married for,

they've been married now for about 39, almost 40 years. I have a sister,

you know, growing up there was, you know, we grew up in a pretty quiet neighborhood

and everything, but my parents are from an immigrants from another country and so some of the

values from there kind of steeped in although we live in the United States. So there was,

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