So I guess if you would like to read the email, that'd be fine.

Sure, so this is what you wrote.

I've been married for 33 years.

My husband and I have not been sexually intimate

for eight years.

He is unhappy.

He started showing signs of sexual dysfunction

about 12 years into the marriage.

I suggested we seek counseling to see what was going on.

Soon after that, I discovered he was looking at pornography.

He was sexually molested as a young man

and seemed to prefer masturbation to our sex life.

There has been a lot of things that have happened since then,

which has destroyed any trust in him.

Does that seem about right?

Yeah, I summed that up better than I recalled.

Good, good.

All right.

Well, it's tough to do 33 years in a sentence or two,

but you certainly managed it.

You certainly managed it.

Well, I would say, where do you want to begin?

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