524-A Pastor Didn't Expect Marriage Help to Come This Way
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
4.7 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 6 March 2026
⏱️ 42 minutes
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Sometimes I have been asked if I, as a woman, should be teaching men. When it comes up, I really appreciate that question because it shows a level of maturity and commitment to scripture.
The truth is, I never intended to be coaching or training men. That, in fact, is something I was against, at first. I intended to just follow Titus 2 by inviting women to learn to love their husbands well.
As I wrote the book and started the podcast and coaching women with this end in mind, men started reaching out to me. It was kind of uncomfortable at first.
I didn't know what to do with it. They were asking how they could get their wife to listen to my material. "I have no idea. That's on you." I wasn't cold-hearted, I just didn't think it was prudent.
Well, I was speaking to my husband, and he felt like it would be ok to speak to some of them via email or possibly a phone call, just so I could understand.
And when I did, I could tell "wow, now I see why she is rejecting". And not only that, I could see that she was really suffering too.
So with prayer and wise counsel and the blessing of my husband, I went for it and tried a pilot coaching program for men. Amazingly, every single man got amazing results (even though only 1 went through the course -- and she didn't know he did it!)
Glory to God. From there, we've tweaked and updated and, by God's grace, are at a place where God is doing miracle after miracle here.
Would love you to hear Aaron's story of the pursuit of God's way in his marriage. As a pastor, he likely had to grapple with this question -- is it ok to be trained by a woman in this topic? And he decided the answer should be yes. You're welcome to check out our convictions surrounding Women in Leadership, here. And the Lord worked in his heart and in his marriage -- even though only he did the work.
We are so excited to share his story with you!
Would love to work with you too! delightyourmarriage.com/cc for next steps.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast. |
| 0:04.0 | You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and truths about intimacy. |
| 0:11.0 | Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind what making love is all about. |
| 0:16.0 | Delight your marriage. |
| 0:21.7 | Hi there. |
| 0:24.6 | This is Bella and I'm grateful that you're here. |
| 0:29.7 | And I'm the author coach and trainer at Delight Your Marriage. |
| 0:36.8 | And it's such an honor to walk alongside this incredible team of people that serve and love the clients we get to serve. So Melanie is a |
| 0:41.0 | clarity advisor alongside Dana. So if you've listened to us before, you know that Dana is the one |
| 0:45.9 | that actually often interviews people for testimonials. So she's one of the clarity advisors that |
| 0:51.8 | brings somebody in, listens to their story, |
| 0:55.2 | prayerfully discerns if we can help them. |
| 0:57.4 | And if so, then she will recommend which program we would recommend for their specific situation. |
| 1:04.9 | And now you're going to hear today from Melanie, who is also a graduate herself, just like Dana, |
| 1:13.3 | and has seen God do incredible things in her own marriage. And so she is interviewing a gentleman, Aaron, who is a pastor. And Melanie |
| 1:19.5 | was the one that walked Aaron through this journey. And we have another clarity advisor, Charles, |
| 1:24.5 | who is also absolutely incredible. And so you're going to start hearing |
| 1:27.9 | from other clarity advisors on our team, which is really exciting because if the Lord prompts you |
| 1:33.4 | to do a program with us, you'll already know who you're talking to. So today we're going to talk to |
| 1:41.0 | Aaron, who is a pastor and the Lord has really used this work to open his |
| 1:47.1 | eyes into things in his marriage. He just did not understand, didn't see, didn't see his wife |
| 1:53.0 | the way the Lord sees her and was inviting him to go a little deeper in some areas that he |
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