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The Art of Charm

522: Tim Urban | Wait But Why

The Art of Charm

http://www.TheArtOfCharm.com

Business, Health & Fitness, Education

4.711K Ratings

🗓️ 16 June 2016

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

Tim Urban (@waitbutwhy) of Wait But Why tells us how to build good patterns for defeating chronic procrastination and gain control over our own lives. The Cheat Sheet: Telling someone afflicted with chronic procrastination not to procrastinate is like telling someone with clinical depression to just be happier: it doesn't work. The chronic procrastinator experiences a constant struggle between their inner rational thinker -- who sees the future and understands the value of goals and hard work -- and an Instant Gratification Monkey that only lives for what's easy and fun today. Even when the inner Rational Decision-Maker knows there's an impending task that needs to be completed (whether it's a thesis or preparation for a TED Talk), the Instant Gratification Monkey will seize every distraction at hand to frustrate that task's completion (until another entity -- the Panic Monster -- awakens). How does the Procrastination Matrix compare to the Eisenhower Matrix, and what tasks does a present-day procrastinator put off for their future self? Learn the different types of procrastinator -- the disastinator, the impostinator, and the successtinator -- and what it takes for the Rational Decision-Maker to overcome the incessant shenanigans of the Instant Gratification Monkey (without having to rely on the intervention of the dreaded Panic Monster). And so much more... Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/tim-urban-wait-but-why-episode-522/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!

Transcript

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0:00.0

20 years later you look back and say you're an unhappy person.

0:02.7

So I never did what I wanted to do.

0:04.4

I never spent enough time with my kids and that's when you had these death bedroom

0:07.3

grits and I really believe so many of them come down to the

0:10.7

procrastination and situations when there is no deadline.

0:15.6

This is the art of charm. Learn everything you need to know to crush it in business,

0:21.2

love and life.

0:25.6

Hey Jordan Harbanger here from the Art of Charm. Today we're talking with Tim

0:30.2

of the blog Wait, but why one of my favorite blogs.

0:33.2

We're going to talk about procrastination, something he is not only very good at but has

0:38.1

also done a TED talk on the subject. We'll also discuss different types of procrastination

0:43.7

such that we might see ourselves doing it even if we think we don't.

0:46.8

This was me actually and starting to figure out why it works, how to fix it.

0:51.1

This one in my opinion is a good lesson and an interesting way to think about the problem,

0:55.2

even if you're not a procrastinator or you just think you aren't.

0:58.4

So enjoy this one with Tim Urban and welcome to the Art of Charm.

1:02.3

I'm here with producer Jason. As you know, the Art of Charm brings together the best thought

1:07.2

leaders, teachers and exceptional individuals to teach you how to be a top performer,

1:11.7

in life, love and at work, even if you're a procrastinator.

1:15.3

And if you're new to the show, we'd love to send you some top episodes and or toolbox

1:19.1

where we discuss things like body language and nonverbal communication, persuasion,

1:23.2

networking, negotiation and everything else we teach here at AOC.

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