Hello hello and welcome to the new mindset who this podcast my name is

Case Kenny at case dot Kenny on Instagram and this is my weekly podcast where I

create short no BS episodes dedicated to helping you be the person you're

meant to be leave your comfort zone and live a fulfilling and purposeful life

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All right. Welcome to episode 517. Hello, my friend. Welcome to a fresh new episode of new mindset

who this as always. Thank you so much for listening. Thank you for supporting me and today a question

for all of us in our relationships and relationships with all kind, I suppose romantic friendship

business in our relationships. Are we in raccoon mode? raccoon mode. And I've got to give credit to

self-care warrior on Instagram for the idea of what she referred to as your raccoon era,

which I think is funny, but ultimately and unfortunately a reflection of our tendency

to fight for trash. To fight for trash much like a raccoon sifts through trash through the dumpster

looking for anything that might be good enough, a little scrap here or there. I've referred to it as

raccoon mode. And to be clear, I'm not a fan of calling anyone trash. I always cringe and I

think people will regret referring to people referring to their exes as trash, right? Your trash,

people who hurt you disappointed you saying they're trash. So that's not what this idea of raccoon

mode means. It means to be in your to be in your raccoon era to be in raccoon mode means to fight

for crumbs to fight for things that are beneath where the bar should be to fight for bare minimum.

It's to be pulled into a relationship where you put up with so much nonsense, so much lack of

reciprocity that is trash behavior, but you put up with it because you've for some reason been

brainwashed or convinced into desperately clinging to those little crumbs, those little pieces of

trash that keep you going that keep you fighting for more raccoon mode. And I think that the key

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