Good morning, good morning. Hope you're doing well. Time to talk about a very interesting topic. Somebody brought up

about what is it, what is the story behind the statement? I didn't mean to upset you. It was never my

intention. It was never my goal. It didn't mean to upset you. Now I don't think it's too much of a stretch

to say that this is perhaps a smidge more on the female side than the male side of the human

equation. Let's unpack it because I guarantee you you will be getting this in spades over the

course of your life, at least while you still have immature manipulative people in your life.

I never meant to, I never promised you a rose garden. So if a woman does something and you're upset

and you say, you did this, it upset me. Now does she want to deal with your feelings? Again, this is not

the most mature approach to life, but we'll just, you know, call her Mary and say she's not particularly

mature. Does Mary want to deal? Does she want to take responsibility for her actions and does she

want to explore your feelings? Well, I mean, she will want to if it's easier, right? But if she can

get away with something much easier, which is to say, whoa, I never meant to upset you, then she'll

take that route. Most people take the path of least resistance, which is why when society loses

its capacity to enforce moral decisions, things crumble very quickly. Let's take a silly scenario,

your girlfriend uses a hairdryer, right? Like, yeah, there's a bathroom off the bedroom. She uses a

loud hairdryer at six in the morning and it's not as you awake because she's got some, I don't

important thing to get to, get up and she uses a loud hairdryer very early in the morning.

And you get startled awake and it's annoying. And you say, hey, what's with the hairdryer?

This is really annoyed, I'm really annoyed that you woke me up when I didn't need to be up and

I need my sleep and blah, blah, blah, right? And she says, whoa, I didn't mean to upset you, I didn't

mean to wake you up. So that's interesting, right? Because that's considered to be some kind of

defense in this situation. And it's very interesting. So she's saying to you, my goal was not to wake you up.

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