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New Mindset, Who Dis?

508 - "Settling Down" vs "Settling Up"

New Mindset, Who Dis?

Case Kenny

Inspiration, Relationships, Mindset, Education, Society & Culture, Wellness, Self-improvement, Selfhelp, Personaldevelopment, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Motivation

4.96.1K Ratings

🗓️ 3 July 2023

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, I talk about the true purpose of a relationship. I talk about the difference between "doing life together" vs. "building life together." I talk about how to take the pressure off in your dating life and a mentality of "settling up" instead of "settling down." My new book "That's Bold of You" is available on Amazon! Instagram: @case.kenny

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0:00.0

Hello, hello, and welcome to the new mindset who this podcast my name is

0:05.8

Case Kenny at Case.canny on Instagram and this is my weekly podcast where I

0:10.9

create short no BS episodes dedicated to helping you be the person you're meant to be

0:15.8

leave your comfort zone and live a fulfilling and purposeful life let's go

0:30.0

all right welcome to episode 508 hello my friend welcome to a fresh new

0:52.7

episode of new mindset who this as always thank you so much for listening thank

0:56.6

you for supporting me and today I want to talk about the real purpose of a

1:01.6

relationship I want to talk about something very specific here it's two words

1:06.1

that we confuse a lot and I think this really small thing this really small

1:11.2

place of assumption place of confusion it really changes how we think about

1:15.7

relationships and I think it's the reason we put undue pressure on ourselves

1:20.2

it's the reason we settle it's the reason we rush it's the reason we end up

1:24.2

with the wrong people it's a small thing but a huge deal and I'll start with

1:29.5

reiterating something I posted on Instagram yesterday that a lot of people really

1:33.3

liked and resonated with a lot of people and I'll use this to get into the

1:37.5

topic I said the following I said I've never liked the term settle down because

1:42.5

that is not the purpose of a relationship I mean sure you settle down in the

1:47.2

sense of no longer worrying about the BS that comes with dating and first

1:50.9

dates and mixed signals and all that but settling down does not describe the

1:55.9

love that you actually deserve because the right relationship invigorates you

2:00.7

and then together with a partner you both get more out of life not a settled

2:05.2

down version because now you have someone who will push you out of your comfort

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