Well, hello. Good evening, good evening. Sorry, I was admitted to late. I had a, a call

and show and it was a little tough to get the fine young lady to take some responsibility.

So I'm here. I'm pumped up jazz. I'm slightly sweaty from intellectual effort and I need

to raise my microphone to switch hang on. I'll teach me to sit while I work when you

should in fact be whistling while you work. Well, hello. Hello. Good evening, good evening.

Thank you for joining me tonight. Great pleasure to chat with you, fine folks. Let's go straight

into the old convo sessions. High staff, please. Your best advice as a successful husband

and father. What is some wisdom you can share with me as I am soon to be married?

So I think I think this is just general life advice as a whole and it's somewhat aesthetic. It's not

a particularly moral piece of advice, but I do think it will help make your life a lot better and a

lot happier. When you're younger, you tend to wrestle a lot with yourself and try and clear the

way to moving forward with fewer internal conflicts. When you're consumed by internal conflicts,

you really can't provide much to the world at all. I mean, it's like we're all part of a relay

race of bringing values to the world, but if you're tangled up within a conflict,

you're part of a relay race, but you just run into little circles and break the chain.

So the beautiful thing about marriage and the even more beautiful thing about being a parent

is it's just and this is what philosophy does for me as well is it is a joyful opportunity for me

to forget about myself completely and focus on someone else, something else to get over yourself,

to get outside of yourself and to focus on others and providing value to others is a great and

deep joy in this world. And it comes from a position of strength. It is a position of weakness.

And I say this with sympathy, right? And I struggle with this myself. So it is a position of

weakness to focus on your own contradictions and to focus on your own challenges and how good or

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