Left one question above on how to try to reach people about peaceful parenting.

I think this is my deep purpose of my life to share knowledge and try to help the world.

Thank you, Stefan, for the kick-in-the-medifacle about helping me define my life's meaning.

Well, I mean, in my experience, the best way to reach people about peaceful parenting

is to remind them of what they dreamed about.

So different from this hell, I'm living. So when people become parents, they have a dream.

They have a dream of cuddling, of glowy kids, of burbling, of breastfeeding, of playing.

They don't have kids with the dream of screaming and yelling and insulting and hitting.

They don't have that. So the first wedding that I was someone's best man at, gosh,

it's a long time ago now. It's 30 years ago.

So the first time that I was best man at a wedding, I gave a speech, which went something like this.

I said, look, over the course of your marriage, you're both smart people, you're wonderful people,

over the course of your marriage, there's going to be times when you wake up and you don't like

each other. There's going to be times when you look across the table and you just have a good

issue and you're not getting along and you just feel like you're at six and sevens, everything

rubs, roe, everything goes the wrong way. Everything feels like cheese graders and sandpaper and it's just

rough. That's going to happen over the course of a long relationship, a lifelong relationship.

Now, there will be people who tell you that marriage is work.

There will be people who tell you that you have to pour heart, soul and gritty effort into a

relationship in order to maintain it. Now, there are times when everything is work.

There are times when you play a sport, you injure yourself and the rehab is work.

There are times when sports becomes frustrating, but sports in its essence is something that you

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