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Therapy Chat

505: Betrayal Trauma + Emdr with Marcken Volmy

Therapy Chat

Laura Reagan, LCSW-C

Social Sciences, Science, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.4762 Ratings

🗓️ 17 November 2025

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

Welcome back to Therapy Chat! This week's episode is a replay where I interviewed author, EMDR-Certified therapist and Consultant In Training Marcken Volmy, LMHC, about how EMDR can help with betrayal trauma and the impact of broken trust. We explored how betrayal by trusted figures and institutions can shatter one's sense of safety and trust in the world.

We also discussed recent examples of betrayal within the mental health field, for example, the FTC settlement with BetterHelp, and other situations in our field which have affected both of us. We talked about the impact these experiences can have on therapists' and clients' trust in the systems and processes of our profession. Marcken explains how EMDR can help change implicit beliefs about self and the world, leading to healing and a felt sense of safety. We also touch on the current political climate and its effect on trust and safety. Marcken's book, Trauma Stories, is available now! Listen in to this hopeful conversation. It's never too late to heal. 

Marcken Volmy is a licensed mental health counselor and the owner of Bedrock Counseling, a private practice based in Florida that also offers EMDR consultation for recently trained clinicians. He is an EMDR trained and certified therapist with over a decade’s worth of experience helping people identify their traumas and gaining more awareness in how to process unresolved issues. Marcken is the author of Trauma Stories: Discovering Strength Through Our Vulnerabilities. Marcken has worked with special needs children, overwhelmed adults, community mental health, mobile crisis unit, children in group homes, non-profit mental health, and substance abuse. Marcken is passionate about all things mental health and trauma related and enjoys adding value to people’s lives one story at a time. Marcken lives in Florida with his wife and family.

Visit Marcken's practice website here: https://bedrockcounseling.com 

Follow Marcken on social media here:

Facebook: @Bedrockcounseling/ Instagram: @Bedrockcounseling, @Marckenvolmy Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marcken-volmy-7b38953b/

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Therapy Notes is the highest rated EHR, practice management, and billing software for mental health

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professionals. It's all-in-one platform is designed to streamline all aspects of your practice,

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from connecting with clients via secure messages to scheduling, notes, billing, and more.

0:15.0

You can trust Therapy Notes has you covered. And one of the best parts? 24-7 customer service

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with a live person. It's beyond easy to get help

0:23.1

over the phone or by email at any time of day from their knowledgeable and friendly representatives.

0:27.9

The best time to give Therapy Notes a try is now. Sign up for your free trial by going to

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TherapyNotes.com, clicking Start My Free Trial, and accessing your first two months free with the promo code chat.

0:38.6

CY Therapy Notes is the most trusted EHR for behavioral health professionals today.

0:43.5

Therapists, ready to stop just listening and start doing?

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I offer several ways to work with me and accelerate your trauma expertise.

0:50.6

You can join my Trauma Therapist Network membership community for ongoing support, book a one-on-one

0:55.6

clinical consultation with me for personalized guidance, or buy my course for clinicians on supporting

1:00.8

survivors of sexual trauma, and check out the retreats coming up in 2026. All that info and more is on

1:07.0

the four therapists page of Trauma Therapist Network, and you can find a link in the show notes.

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