504 | What You, Me, & Tuscany Taught Me About Love..
Affirmations for Black Girls
Tyra The Creative
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 11 May 2026
⏱️ 35 minutes
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Summary
Have you ever watched a movie and realized it wasn’t just entertaining you… it was reflecting parts of your own life back to you? In today’s episode, Tyra shares the love lessons she took away from You Me and Tuscany, from realizing that love should feel safe and peaceful, to understanding that the right love doesn’t require you to become someone else to receive it. This conversation is a reminder that love isn’t just about being chosen… it’s also about choosing what truly aligns with you.
This week’s Affirmation is: “I deserve a love that feels safe.”
3 Biggest Takeaways
- Love that’s meant for you won’t constantly leave you confused or emotionally exhausted
- The right love allows you to be fully yourself, not a performance version of who you think you need to be
- Attraction alone isn’t enough. Discernment and alignment matter too
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| 0:00.0 | I'm going to start this off by saying I really, really, really think that Yumi and Tuscany was a very good rom-com. |
| 0:10.0 | Powerful. What is powerful? What is going on, beautiful? What is going on, beautiful people? |
| 0:29.6 | You are listening to the affirmations for Black Girls podcast, where we focus on personal growth and cultivating a healthy relationship with ourselves. |
| 0:38.0 | I am your host, Tyra the creative actress content creator and mental health enthusiasts. |
| 0:43.3 | And y'all, let me just say, I know I'm a little late posting this episode, |
| 0:48.3 | but I really wanted to talk about a black rom-com. |
| 0:53.0 | Let's call it Spade a Spade. |
| 0:54.8 | So this is a light episode, and I really hope you guys enjoy it. |
| 1:00.1 | And even though it was just meant to be an easy watch and something to make you feel good, |
| 1:06.1 | I want to talk about what Yumi and Tuscany taught me about love, |
| 1:10.5 | because there are a little bit of, you know, some gems. |
| 1:15.2 | There are some gems sprinkled out through there. |
| 1:18.2 | But before we get all the way into our episode, let's go ahead and jump into our affirmation of the week. |
| 1:25.0 | This week's affirmation is, |
| 1:32.0 | I deserve a love that feels safe. |
| 1:43.5 | Let's go ahead and drop in, y'all. I deserve a love that feels safe. I deserve a love that feels safe. |
| 2:08.6 | I deserve a love that feels safe. I deserve a love that feels safe. |
| 2:25.8 | I deserve a love that feels safe. |
| 2:31.2 | Let's say it one last time together. |
| 2:37.7 | I deserve a love that feels safe. |
| 2:41.5 | Y'all, y'all, y'all. |
| 2:45.2 | I just love this affirmation. |
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