50 Years As A Therapist- Sage Advice for All Coaches & Therapists - Duane Mullner - 528

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Jayson Gaddis

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🗓️ 27 May 2025

⏱️ 79 minutes

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Summary

Jayson sits down with Duane Mullner to talk about the role of the therapist or coach. Why is the here and now so important? Can clients help their coaches and therapists? How should you prepare for a session? What should you do with a client who isn’t making progress? How can you help clients who are stuck in victimhood? Don’t miss this chance to hear Duane Mullner share the wisdom he has accumulated over his long career.

Timestamps:

6:44 - What is the role of the therapist/coach
15:30 - What’s going on between therapist and client?
20:31 - Why is the here and now so important?
27:39 - Don’t make resistance wrong
34:35 - How clients help coaches and therapists
41:46 - How to prepare for a session
44:51 - Making progress with clients
54:18 - How to help people who are in their victimhood
1:07:00 - Should you trust clients to treat you about their problems?

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0:00.0	Welcome to the show Dwayne Molnar.
0:05.4	Good to be here, Jason.
0:07.4	Yeah, so grateful to get this time.
0:09.4	Yeah, grateful to get time with you.
0:12.4	You're a real elder and you understand people and you've been at this since, what is it, 1970 something?
0:27.0	1972. When I was born is there wow yeah so you've been a therapist since 1972 or you've been uh kind of a healer helper since then
0:35.5	or what uh 1972 is um kind of when healer, helper since then?
0:43.5	1972 is kind of when I transitioned into my life as a therapist,
0:49.9	having gone through eight years of seminary training prior to that.
0:58.2	And not being ordained, even though I was groomed to be a priest for about 20 years.
1:02.9	And it dawned on me one day that this is not going to work.
1:05.5	Salivacy is not going to work well for me.
1:14.5	So I transitioned into this, into casework originally, social services, and I felt I was doing a lot of therapy there.
1:16.6	We didn't use that word.
1:27.4	That only became a sophisticated word later on, but helping and being available and being present to people who were hurting and caring and struggling and wanted a witness.
1:30.9	And, you know, it's what really introduced me after four years of social work,
1:36.8	then really opening private practice and all of that.
1:40.7	So now how long do you say you've been a therapist for?
1:44.8	Almost 50 years. Wow. Yeah. All of that. So now how long do you say you've been a therapist for? Almost 50 years.
1:46.4	Wow.
1:48.1	It's a lot of clients.
1:49.4	It's a lot of clients.
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