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Mary’s Cup of Tea: the Self-Love Podcast for Women

#50: How To Let Go of Control & Perfectionism

Mary’s Cup of Tea: the Self-Love Podcast for Women

Mary Jelkovsky

Self-love, Body-image, Mental Health, Body Image, Relationships, Women's Health, Self Love, Advice For Women, Self Love For Women, Love Yourself, Education, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

4.8721 Ratings

🗓️ 21 January 2021

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

Perfectionism shows up in many areas of our lives, but especially when it comes to food and our bodies (i.e. trying to control what we eat and/or what we look like). In this solo episode Mary talks about ways to let go of control and perfectionism and embody surrender and flow instead. In this episode you will learn... - Where perfectionism really comes from, how it operates, and why it leaves us feeling bad - 4 practical ways to practice letting go of control - Self-talk to practice when you feel perfectionism creeping in Remember: anything you can't control is teaching you how to let go.   If you enjoy Mary’s Cup of Tea Podcast, could you leave a short review on Apple Podcasts/iTunes? It takes less than a minute, and it really makes a difference in helping the show grow!   This episode is brought to you by my favorite books! I would not be the person I am today without the books I’ve read. These are books every woman MUST read so check them out at maryscupoftea.com/books.   FOLLOW MARY ON INSTAGRAM: @maryscupofteaa @maryspodcast @retreatsbymary

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Mary's Cup of Tea podcast. I'm your host, Mary Jilkovsky. I'm an author,

0:11.8

speaker, and all-around self-love advocate. And this is the podcast that will inspire you to love yourself.

0:22.1

Hey friends, before we begin, I just wanted to let you know that this podcast episode

0:26.2

is sponsored by my favorite books.

0:29.5

Not literally, but I did create a book list for you with all of my favorite books for

0:35.1

self-love and body image and self-confidence and just overall self-healing

0:40.8

and growth. I am a huge personal growth person and to be honest with you, a lot of the things that I talk

0:47.4

about come from the books that I've read. I'm a big reader and I always tell my little sister,

0:52.6

readers are leaders. And I love audiobooks,

0:55.9

I love book books, I love Kindle, I love all the forms of books, just give me all the goods.

1:02.1

So I decided to create a book list for you with my top 25 favorite books and I actually add to

1:08.8

this list. So there's probably going to be more than 25

1:11.0

books on it. But I have narrowed it down to top 25 books that you need to read to start the

1:16.5

self-love journey. I'm not saying you have to read all the books right now, but you should have

1:20.7

this list handy-dandy for when you're getting a book on Amazon or shopping in your

1:25.5

audible or whatever. So I've created this book list and you can get

1:29.5

it at maryscup of tea.com slash books. And I will also put it in the show notes. And let me know how

1:36.7

you like these recommendations by screenshoting what you're reading and tagging me in your

1:41.5

Instagram stories. I always love seeing you use my recommendations.

1:45.1

It just makes my whole day because we're like a little community.

1:48.1

So anyways, marriescup of tea.com slash books.

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Go get it.

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