There's absolutely nothing more addictive than love, whether it's cocaine, whether it's heroin, whether it's nicotine. It's nothing compared to the intensity of withdrawal that we get when we're in love. So in this video right now, I'm going to share with you the five ways to make a man emotionally addicted to you. And don't worry, this is a toy cigar. It's not having a little bit of fun.

It's not real. Let's get into it. My name is Adam Lodalcha. I'm an executive love coach and the founder

of love strategies.com. And our clients, when they work with us, they report that the guys that they

end up with, these guys are almost addicted to them, like they're bringing them flowers or these guys

are making plans way in advance. They're doing everything they can to spend more time with our

clients. And the wild thing is, when they follow the right strategy and has nothing to do with

your age, your looks, or even what you do for a living. It's all about how you make him feel.

That's exactly what we coach our clients on. And so in this video, right now, I want to share with you some of these strategies that we can use to make a man feel absolutely addicted to you. And as a side note, if you are looking for the right type of executive love coaching to help you attract the love you truly deserve, head on over to Loveapply.com. Apply for a complimentary love strategy session. We'll walk you through the entire process

step by step. All right, let's get into those five strategies. The first one is to give him that

dopamine hit. This is done through surprise and that can be the small, unexpected moments of joy.

It could be like a thoughtful message that you send him. It can be, you know, a spontaneous compliment that comes out of nowhere. It could be like a thoughtful message that you send him. It can be,

you know, a spontaneous compliment that comes out of nowhere. It could be an inside joke.

Whatever it is, I want you to be lighting up his reward center kind of like a slot machine.

Like, look, I know in the movies they always talk about like, oh, writing him the classic note in the lunchbox.

That's super sweet. But I actually look at this differently i want you

to break the pattern through surprise that's what makes things addictive instead of every single day

just texting him a good morning text instead i want you to randomly just send him a voice note

that says something like i just had a little moment where i realize how much i adore you. That's all carry on. Like how freaking sweet is that? That's going to light up his dopamine center and his brain. Or another playful one you can try is send him a Venmo for $5 with a caption that said, your coffee's on me today, handsome. Go be amazing. Ding, ding, ding, ding, that is the slot machine right there. That's going to light up his dopamine center. And that's again, what makes things addictive because these things are so spontaneous. They're kind of random. And he doesn't know when they're going to be coming next. Or a final example is like randomly compliment a part of him that he doesn't expect. You could be like, hey, as anyone ever told you how sexy your brain is when you're explaining something you're really passionate about? And say that right after he talks about something random that he was talking about. It could be fishing. It could be about his motorcycles. It could be about sports. I don't care. You throw that compliment his way and you are going to light up center of his brain that he may not have ever felt before. Another way to make a man emotionally addicted to you is to just mirror his emotions.

And this is when a man is sharing something really vulnerable and he's kind of opening up to you

in ways maybe he hasn't done before, it's really important to gently mirror that energy back. I want this guy to feel seen.

I want him to feel heard. And that is truly addictive. Because a lot of women will say that they want a man who's

emotionally vulnerable. But when a guy becomes emotionally vulnerable, they actually shut it down.

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