5 Things You Should Never Do for a Man
Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women
Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski
4.7 • 720 Ratings
🗓️ 17 December 2025
⏱️ 13 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Ladies, there are five things that you should literally never do for a man if you want real love. |
| 0:07.8 | Because if you were like the vast majority of my clients, you're probably a giver. |
| 0:13.7 | You're a people pleaser. |
| 0:15.0 | And you fall into what I call the givers trap, where you overgive in in relationships and you're not needy. |
| 0:23.5 | It's because you're so loving. |
| 0:25.5 | You're so caring. |
| 0:26.8 | You want to fix people. |
| 0:28.4 | You want to, you know, if you really care about a guy, you want nothing more than to see him win. |
| 0:33.6 | But unfortunately, what this can do is lead you to really self-abandonment. It's really |
| 0:39.2 | sacrificing yourself for someone else. And the worst way to do that is sacrificing yourself for |
| 0:45.9 | someone else who's not making any sacrifices for you. So today, I really want to set the frame |
| 0:51.7 | for all of you. And these are a few things that when we're working with our clients as an executive love |
| 0:56.6 | coach, we are making sure that they are holding the line on these things. |
| 1:02.9 | If you're in a healthy relationship, and by the way, I would say the same things for men. |
| 1:06.2 | These are never things you should do for a woman. |
| 1:08.4 | But of course, our audience is for single women who are |
| 1:11.4 | looking for love. So let's jump into a few of these. The first one is to never, ever abandon |
| 1:18.5 | your own needs. It's so important when you're creating what we call a love vision and something |
| 1:24.9 | we do with our clients. It's part of our seven little love steps |
| 1:28.6 | if you want to learn all those just go to love strategies dot com we'll walk you through the entire |
| 1:31.9 | process free training there but anyways i'll get through the key parts of this when you are working |
| 1:37.8 | on building your love vision and really getting crystal clear about the man in the relationship |
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