5 Things To Say To Your Spouse Daily
Fierce Marriage
Ryan and Selena Frederick
4.9 • 4.3K Ratings
🗓️ 10 November 2020
⏱️ 51 minutes
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Summary
Let's get practical. In this episode we discussed five phrases you can say to each other every day that will ensure the "structural trends" in your marriage are for the better. While each of these phrases will sound common, as we discovered, each one represents a profound underlying belief you hold (or don't hold) about God, yourselves, and your marriage. We hope this episode blesses you!
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| 0:00.0 | All right, we're going to be intensely practical this week. We'll talk about some of the concepts here, but really it's, we're practical. We're talking about five things to say to your spouse daily. Now, why do we even go out of our way to say these five things? I think that's the big question that we hope to answer. And we'll also give you kind of an overview of the Frederick household as of late. In that other words, you guys, marriage takes work, right? |
| 0:22.0 | Marriage takes work. |
| 0:23.7 | And we've experienced that in very visceral ways over the last couple of weeks. |
| 0:29.2 | So anyway, we're looking forward to a good talk and we'll see you on the other side. |
| 0:32.8 | Welcome to the fierce marriage podcast where we believe that marriage takes a fierce tenacity that never gives up and refuses to get in. Here we'll share openly and honestly about all things marriage, |
| 0:42.1 | sex, communication, finances, priorities, purpose, and everything in between. |
| 0:46.9 | Laugh, ponder, and join in on candid, gospel-centered conversations. |
| 0:56.2 | This is Fierce Marriage. |
| 1:06.8 | Oh, here we are, Selena. |
| 1:09.4 | It's been a rough couple of weeks, I'd say. |
| 1:10.2 | Yeah. |
| 1:27.5 | We've been, we've been okay. It's just kind of been an underlying disconnect and discontent, not discontentment, just with each other. It's like, oh, we're good, and then, yeah, we're just like quickly just are combative with each other. Yeah, it's just we haven't been nice to each other. Well, I feel like I've been... I've been nice to you. |
| 1:28.4 | Extremely nice to you. |
| 1:29.3 | I said it first, so I said it first. |
| 1:42.2 | Got it in there. This is it, people. This is it. You get a word in edgewise. But I think it's because, you know, and I'm not going to say, like, we haven't exercising self-control and it's all it's it's all the devil's fault |
| 1:44.1 | but we we have been |
| 1:47.7 | recording um yeah for the beta the gospel-centered marriage and anytime we do anything like that |
| 1:54.0 | that's kind of out of our normal rhythm that is pursuing you know kingdom building yeah i don't i always like botch those phrases it seems like |
| 2:05.0 | whenever we are just stepping out and kind of taking ground i'll say yeah taking ground so you |
| 2:10.6 | would mention i want to make sure people know what we're talking about it's called gospel-centered marriage |
| 2:13.7 | it's going to be kind of a core marriage course ecosystem with the core kind of |
| 2:19.3 | part of it. That'll be a certain number of weeks. And then little mini courses off of that. |
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