5 Things Men Must Do To Rebuild In Their 30s

ManTalks Podcast

Connor Beaton

Relationships, Education, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.8 • 591 Ratings

🗓️ 15 August 2024

⏱️ 13 minutes

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Talking points: aging, mindset, personal growth I bottomed out in my 20s and nearly lost everything. When I finally emerged from the rubble, I had NO idea where to even begin. The following are things I learned the hard way, so if you’re in a similar spot, strongly encourage you to listen in. Here’s how you rebuild. (00:00:00) - Intro and number 1: make competency your aim (00:03:33) - Number 2: get in shape (00:05:24) - Number 3: learn how to save and invest, and get yourself out of debt (00:07:45) - Number 4: figure out if you’re a number one, number two, or a worker bee (00:10:23) - Number 5: take women off the pedestal *** Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Check out some free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more episodes, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	All right, guys, welcome back to The Man Talk Show.
0:07.3	Connor Beaton here.
0:08.4	Before we dive into today's topic, which is how to rebuild your life in your 30s, which
0:13.8	I did after bottoming out and blowing up my life in my late 20s.
0:18.5	Don't forget, man it forward.
0:22.3	Share this content with somebody that you know will enjoy it. It goes a long way to growing this channel. Spread the word. Okay. Quick story.
0:28.9	My late 20s, I blew my life up. I imploded it. I had a great career. I had a motorcycle,
0:33.8	had a car that I liked, had a relationship that I liked, and I blew the whole damn thing up.
0:39.3	I was unfaithful in a relationship that ended. I was questioning the career that was going
0:44.4	down. I didn't really feel like it was the life that I wanted to live. I was traveling a lot.
0:49.1	I was a musician, you know, traveling around the world. And it wasn't really the lifestyle that I
0:53.4	wanted. And when everything
0:55.1	fell apart, I came out the other side and I was like, man, how am I going to, how am I going to
0:59.9	like put my life back together? And what I've learned is that your 30s are this incredible
1:06.0	window where you can blow things up in a beautiful way, where you can scale things, where you can grow,
1:13.9	where you have the kind of like last vestiges of unlimited energy. And when I say last vestiges,
1:22.3	I see that jokingly. You know, there's a lot of guys who are like, oh, I hit 40 and all of a sudden
1:26.7	I didn't have any energy or I hit 50, I didn't have any energy. You know, in your 30s, you still can stay up late and work. You can still produce a tremendous amount. I ended up working at Apple as a market leader and building my company on the side. And I was working, you know, 80, 90, 100 hour weeks for almost a year and a half.
1:45.2	And I was able to do that in my early 30s because I had a fire. And so here are some of the keys to
1:51.5	rebuilding your life. Number one, make competency your aim. There is nothing more crippling for you as a man than not feeling capable in an area that you give a shit about.
2:06.3	So find something that you genuinely like, something that you genuinely enjoy.
2:11.7	It doesn't have to be some passion.
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