5 Simple Steps To Build A High Value Social Circle & Avoid Value Vampires | Toolbox

The Art of Charm

http://www.TheArtOfCharm.com

Education, Health & Fitness, Business

4.7 • 11K Ratings

🗓️ 3 October 2022

⏱️ 61 minutes

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In today’s episode, we cover the science behind the hidden power of relationships with AJ and Johnny. The people in your life can you lead you to success or failure, joy or frustration—so how do you know what influence people and their friends are having on your life, how can you be a high value person to attract high value friendships and relationships, and what steps can you take to upgrade your social circle? What to Listen For Introduction – 0:00 What influence do the people around you have on your happiness and ability to achieve your goals? How do you handle relationships that have a negative influence on your life? High Value vs Low Value Behavior – 10:55 What does it mean to be high value and why should you avoid low value behaviors if you don’t want to lose great friendships and relationships? What are the benefits of being high value as much as possible? Inescapable Influence of Friends and Family – 23:01 How can your life be influenced by the friends of friends you don’t even know and what can you do to mitigate the harm they cause? Can you filter out the negative influences of certain friends so you can keep them around for the positive influences? Curate Your Social Circle – 47:30 What steps can you take to upgrade your existing social circle so your friends, family members, and coworkers support you rather than bring you down? What is the difference between venting and gossiping and how should you respond to each one? Other people are capable of having a significant impact on your life. If you let them, the right ones can set up conditions for success while leaving behind only pleasant memories and happy moments in their wake - but how do we determine which individuals will provide us with these opportunities? And more importantly: what can we do when our friends begin steering clear-cut paths towards failure or discontentment instead by trying to guide themselves into successful futures through less than honest means such as cheating at sports games etc. A Word From Our Sponsors Do you LOVE the toolbox episodes? Did you know that every week we give a LIVE mini-toolbox lesson inside our Private Facebook Group? Best of all it is FREE to join. Join today and get access to all of our live training and level up your communication, leadership, influence and persuasion skills. With 14,000 members it’s a great place to network, learn and overcome any obstacle that’s in your way. Did you know that you can get the whole Art of Charm catalog when you subscribe to Stitcher Premium using our link? That’s 15 years of podcasts featuring expert guests and toolbox episodes! Sign up today and use Code “CHARM” to get a free month! Running out of things to say in conversation… and still struggling to get people interested in you? That’s an uncomfortable position to be in. Don’t want to risk getting tongue-tied and screwing things up the next time you meet someone? Check out Conversation Magic now to make sure you don't crash and burn. With our bulletproof formula, you'll be flirting up a storm, sparking fun and engaging conversations, and making high-value friends anywhere! Resources from this Episode What Are Social Skills? A Value Vampire Has No Clue Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Johnny and AJ here, do you struggle to spark a connection with possible friends and love interests?
0:05.6	Is social anxiety or awkwardness getting in your way?
0:08.8	Listen, your social anxiety, awkwardness, and lack of confidence are thwarting your attempts at meaningful relationships.
0:16.4	But there's something you could do about it.
0:18.6	After coaching over 9,000 clients on how to master social confidence,
0:22.6	we've learned a thing or two about what it actually takes to spark an instant connection with someone.
0:27.6	We've packaged these insights inside a download called the instant connection kit.
0:33.2	And as a thank you for being a podcast listener, we want to give you this kit for free.
0:38.8	Inside the instant connection kit, you'll get three resources to help you spark a connection with anyone in any social setting.
0:46.6	These resources include our popular conversation formula, small talk conversation starters, and a resource to understand emotional bids.
0:55.8	To get your hands on this kit and immediately start improving your relationships,
1:00.2	go to thearticharm.com slash connect.
1:04.2	Remember, you could do something about your social anxiety, awkwardness, introversion, and more.
1:10.0	Start with our instant connection kit at thearticharm.com slash connect.
1:17.0	Welcome to the articharm podcast where we break down the science of powerful communication and winning mindsets.
1:22.8	So you have the cheat code to succeed with people.
1:24.8	Every episode is jam packed with actionable steps to unlock the hidden superpowers inside of you.
1:30.4	Level up with us each week by listening to interviews with the best in business, psychology, and relationships.
1:36.0	We distill thousands of hours of research in the most effective tools and the latest science so you can start winning today.
1:42.2	Let's face it.
1:43.2	In order to be seen and heard, your communication needs to cut through the noise and we're going to show you how.
1:49.0	I'm AJ, successfully recovered introvert, entrepreneur, and self-development junkie.
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