So if you're struggling in your love life and you feel like you're on this hamster wheel of just attracting the same type of guy over and over and over again, it's possible that your type won't actually make you happy.

And the reason why you're drawn to this type of guy is actually coming from a place of wounds, not from a place of worth.

And Gary and I really want to dive deep into this idea because this is something that when we

work with our clients, we want to dive deep with them and get to the heart of what's going on

is that then sets the strategy for their love life moving forward.

Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast where we we help successful women attract high-value men,

date with a strategy, and improve their relationships.

Now, whether you're single or dating or in a new relationship,

we're here to help you dive into the male mind and provide raw insights found nowhere else,

backed by science, psychology, and our own personal experiences.

Your host today are myself, Adam LaDolche, professional dating coach and founder of Love Strategies,

and Dr. Gary Lewandowski, a relationship scientist, professor, and our head relationship coach

here at Love Strategies. Please share with a friend and enjoy. So Gary, I think this will be a really

important one for our clients and for our listeners.

I think it is because I think probably a lot of our listeners are familiar with this idea of having baggage, right?

It's like, you know, from a past, your relationship history, some past experience you had, you have baggage.

And there's just something about that metaphor that never sat right with me because it just doesn't, I don't know, to me it doesn't make sense. Because one of the worst things you could ever have in life is, like, going on a flight somewhere and leaving your baggage behind or having your baggage get lost. To think that, like, this is something you're purposely bringing along with you as a bad, it just doesn't make sense. But wounds to me makes a ton of sense. It feels very accurate in the sense that you had experiences

that were not great. Those created wounds. And wounds heal over time. Now, depending on how deep

the wound was, and I'm going deep on this metaphor, by the way, but depending on how deep the wound was, your scarring is going to occur,

and it's going to be more prominent or less prominent.

And like those things stick with you.

Now, they don't have to limit you.

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