Today on the girl to find show we are talking about five signs that you are trying to control

the man in your life. I mean you know the old saying where it goes like the man's the head but the woman is the neck

you know she controls never was like ha ha ha but how sad that that really is the case in so many

Christian marriages where he might be the face but secretly the door closes and she's like now

you do this and it might not be in those terms but everyone knows

the woman is in charge she controls and her little puppet husband is just out there saying

what he needs to say is this the biblical way is this what we as Christian wives should be doing I don't

know let's dig into scripture and find out

what's up everybody it is Kristen and Bethany here on the Girl Define show. We are so

glad you're joining us. We are sisters and what we're talking about today is very

near and dear to our hearts because we struggle with this. Like being wives who want to control each of the five signs that we're going to talk about today.

I have struggled with each one of them like I can personally attest to you.

So this is something that whether you're single or married this conversation is for you because it's not just are you a controlling wife in your marriage are you a manipulative wife whether you realize it or not but even as a single woman or more specifically I should say a woman dating you're in a

relationship but you're not married there are ways that even in dating you can be a

controlling a manipulative woman and struggle with these things and even looking

back on my dating

relationship with Zach I remember I struggled with this like and there's a reason we're

going to get into some scripture for why as Christian women there are some

sin bent tendencies reasons why we specifically

yeah as females struggle with wanting control specifically over a man and we live in a culture where the whole mindset of like being a boss lady like you girl you get it what you want your dreams like I'm like we're all for women being ambitious and like pursuing things wholeheartedly being hard

workers like we are for a lot of those attributes and characteristics but we have

taken it to a whole new level where as women we are basically told like the proper

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