5 Questions To Work With “Almost” Anyone | Michael Bungay Stanier

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🗓️ 21 August 2023

⏱️ 50 minutes

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Articharm Podcast where we break down the science of powerful communication
0:04.6	and winning mindsets so you have the cheat code to succeed with people.
0:07.8	Every episode is jam-packed with actionable steps to unlock the hidden superpowers inside of you.
0:13.4	Level up with us each week by listening to interviews with the best in business,
0:17.2	psychology and relationships. We distill thousands of hours of research
0:21.1	in the most effective tools and the latest science so you can start winning today.
0:25.2	Let's face it. In order to be seen and heard, your communication needs to cut through the noise
0:30.5	and we're going to show you how. I'm AJ successfully recovered introvert, entrepreneur and self-development
0:36.0	junkie. And I'm Johnny Zubak, former touring musician, promoter, rock and roller and co-founder
0:40.8	here at the Articharm. And for the last 15 years, we've trained thousands of top performers and
0:46.4	teams from every background. We have dedicated our lives to teaching men and women all they need
0:51.4	to know about communication, networking and relationships. You shouldn't have to settle for
0:56.2	anything less than extraordinary. Welcome back to the Articharm Podcast. Today we're speaking
1:03.2	with Michael Bungay Stainier, an expert in teaching leadership skills and habits. He's the author
1:09.0	of the best-selling book, The Coaching Habit. Say, ask, ask more and change the way you lead forever.
1:15.1	And his latest book is titled How to Work with Almost Anyone. Five questions for building
1:19.9	the best possible relationships. Michael defines a keystone conversation and how we can build
1:25.7	the best possible relationship with our work colleagues. Five key questions to ask your team members
1:31.2	to build a stronger working relationship, what to avoid, and a simple strategy to reset the
1:36.7	relationships at work that have gone off track. Welcome to the show, Michael. So great to have you.
1:41.3	Thanks, AJ. And John, I'm really happy to be here. We have to talk about obviously when it comes
1:46.0	to peers and then it comes to superiors and the hierarchical structure that is on any team.
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