5 Qualities a Narcissist Will Seek to Destroy in You
Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs
Lisa A. Romano
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🗓️ 21 December 2022
⏱️ 16 minutes
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Summary
When you meet a narcissist, you won't automatically know you're dealing with someone who exists inside a movie they play inside their head. You won't know that they can't perceive you as a 3D person, who is beautifully imperfect. Instead, you will be idealized so that the narcissist feels great about being with you. You will be love-bombed as a consequence of their fantasy and need to feel uplifted by their choice in you. YOU Dear One, do not actually exist to them. Once the narcissist grows bored of you, in time, their appetite for power, control, and domination will begin to surface. When this happens, they will look to destroy beautiful human qualities in you. In this episode, Lisa A. Romano, codependency and narcissistic abuse recovery coach, helps you understand how to hold onto your sanity and your personal power as the mask begins to crumble.
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| 0:00.0 | So today, we're going to be talking about five qualities a narcissistic person wishes |
| 0:06.1 | to seek to destroy in you. |
| 0:12.6 | So when we talk about narcissism, we're not talking about someone who's having a bad day. |
| 0:18.1 | One of the things that I try to remind my children of and the people that |
| 0:22.1 | I coach and members of my own family and community is we should try to shy away from judging |
| 0:27.3 | someone on their worst day because we all have bad days. And when we're talking about |
| 0:33.6 | narcissism, we're not talking about someone who's just having a bad day. We're talking about |
| 0:39.0 | someone who has a pervasive pattern of exploiting people's emotions, their finances, their |
| 0:45.4 | sense of reality. We're talking about someone who is a pattern of entitlement. So they are |
| 0:51.2 | entitled to abuse you. They are entitled to lie to you. They are entitled to step on other people to get what they want. We are talking about someone who has a pattern of lacking empathy. So this person is empathy impaired. So you tell your friend that your dog got hit by a car and all she cares about is why you |
| 1:16.3 | were late, why you couldn't pick her up on time. |
| 1:20.3 | There seems to be a lack of understanding of what you have experienced emotionally. |
| 1:26.3 | They may know that they should have empathy for you, but they can't cultivate the feeling |
| 1:31.7 | of empathy for you. |
| 1:33.4 | They can't really relate to what you're experiencing on an emotional level. |
| 1:38.1 | This makes trying to have an authentic relationship or any type of relationship with someone who has these patterns |
| 1:46.6 | impossible. |
| 1:48.0 | Your relationships with this type of a person and if you step back and you take a macro |
| 1:53.3 | look at this person's life, you'll see it's not just you. |
| 1:57.9 | This person will have a string of relationships that tend to be very frustrating. They go in |
| 2:03.5 | one way. People who they have been intimate with will tell you that they felt exploited, that they |
| 2:09.7 | felt unheard, that they felt like their partner was indifferent. You will hear people talk about |
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