5-MINUTE FRIDAY: It's Time to Write a Really Important Letter
Hurdle with Emily Abbate
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4.9 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 8 May 2020
⏱️ 10 minutes
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Summary
In college, I was in a serious relationship with someone In the army who deployed to Afghanistan. During that relationship, I started writing letters on flights home. Wherever I would travel, whether it was for work or personal, my self-imposed rule was that I would write my significant other a little something on the trip back to New York. The relationship didn’t last, but the practice did. Now, to this day, whenever I’m on a plane — I take the time to write someone a letter. A friend, a love interest, a family member, you name it. Often times, these letters are filled with things I may not be ready to say IRL. Things that I really need to get off my chest. Over the past couple months, life has shifted. These letters are something I miss, and something I’m starting to integrate back into my routine — no flight necessary — starting this weekend.
PROMPT: Who would you write a letter to, and what would it say? Then, when you’re done, take the time to read it out loud. Ask yourself: How does this make you feel, hearing it? Does it inspire you to change something? Reach out to someone? I’m curious - let me know via DM or email.
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, Hurtlers, Emily Abadi popping in with another installment of five-minute Friday from Hurtle. As you know, on five |
| 0:22.8 | minute Friday, I tell a story. I offer you a thought prompt to take you into your weekend and then |
| 0:29.9 | give you my highlights of the week, things that I thought were cool, whether they're awesome |
| 0:34.5 | things that businesses are doing, content picks, podcasts, shows to watch, |
| 0:39.7 | movies to see, articles to read, you name it. It's kind of crazy when I take a step back |
| 0:46.5 | and realize that we've been doing this social distancing, stay at home, quarantine situation |
| 0:53.1 | for almost two months now. |
| 0:55.8 | I said to someone today that I know it's hard to see it this way, |
| 0:59.7 | but I feel like it's been a really unique opportunity to slow down and reflect a lot, right? |
| 1:06.4 | I've been reflecting about some of the things that used to be part of my routine that aren't now. |
| 1:13.2 | And that includes traveling. |
| 1:16.1 | So on that note, when I was a senior in college, I started dating someone that was in the military. |
| 1:22.2 | We met about a month before he deployed to Afghanistan. |
| 1:25.4 | It was his second tour. |
| 1:27.0 | It was a really difficult time, |
| 1:29.1 | of course, for him, but also for me worrying about him as an infantry guy, living by my |
| 1:35.6 | cell phone, hoping to hear from him at any minute, 24 hours a day. That was my first introduction |
| 1:42.6 | to love in a romantic way, really, this feeling that a piece |
| 1:46.6 | of your heart is literally outside of your body. It was during this relationship that I started |
| 1:53.6 | writing letters, not just sporadically. I would write letters whenever I was flying somewhere on a |
| 1:59.9 | plane. We dated during my first year of living in New York, and this was when work travel started |
| 2:05.3 | to be a thing for me, and so I was on flights pretty often. |
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