5 Beautiful Qualities a Narcissist Must Destroy in You
Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs
Lisa A. Romano
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🗓️ 24 November 2021
⏱️ 18 minutes
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Summary
It is difficult to understand why a narcissist does what they do, however, once you understand the aim of a narcissistic person is to reduce their targets into puddles of compliant mounds of flesh, it is far easier to spot the red flags they inevitably give off. As always, we must first seek to eradicate narcissistic traits in ourselves if we are ever to create authentic and loving relationships with others.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast. |
| 0:06.0 | My name is Lisa A. Romano. |
| 0:08.0 | I am a life coach, best-selling author, YouTube vlogger, meditation teacher, an expert in the field of codependency and narcissistic abuse. |
| 0:16.0 | I am a believer in the power of an organized mind. |
| 0:20.0 | My aim is to help people learn what it means to live above the veil of consciousness, rather |
| 0:25.8 | than living a reactive life. |
| 0:28.3 | May your heart feel blessed, your mind feel expanded, and your spirit find hope, as you |
| 0:33.5 | spend time with me here at the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast. |
| 0:39.7 | So today, we're going to be talking about five qualities. |
| 0:44.1 | A narcissistic person wishes to seek to destroy in you. |
| 0:48.1 | So when we talk about narcissism, we're not talking about someone who's having a bad day. |
| 0:55.4 | One of the things that I try to remind my children of and the people that I coach and members of my own family and |
| 1:00.8 | community is we should try to shy away from judging someone on their worst day because we all have |
| 1:08.2 | bad days. And when we're talking about narcissism, we're not talking about |
| 1:12.8 | someone who's just having a bad day. We're talking about someone who has a pervasive pattern |
| 1:18.1 | of exploiting people's emotions, their finances, their sense of reality. We're talking about |
| 1:24.8 | someone who is a pattern of entitlement. So they are entitled to abuse you. They are entitled to lie to you. They are entitled to step on other people to get what they want. We are talking about someone who has a pattern of lacking empathy. So this person is empathy impaired. So you tell your friend that your |
| 1:49.0 | dog got hit by a car and all she cares about is why you were late, why you couldn't pick her up on |
| 1:55.7 | time. There seems to be a lack of understanding of what you have experienced emotionally. They may know that they should |
| 2:04.1 | have empathy for you, but they can't cultivate the feeling of empathy for you. They can't really |
| 2:10.2 | relate to what you're experiencing on an emotional level. This makes trying to have an authentic |
| 2:16.5 | relationship or any type of a relationship with someone who has these patterns impossible. |
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