#493: Not Someday. NOW.

The Mark Groves Podcast

Mark Groves

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.9 • 5K Ratings

🗓️ 5 January 2026

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Summary

In this episode I deliver a wake-up call for anyone who keeps delaying the changes they know they need to make—because the cost of avoidance always shows up as anxiety, addiction, and quiet self-betrayal. I unpack why so many of us wait until a crisis, rock bottom, or brush with mortality forces transformation, and how our unconscious wounds silently steer our choices until we start calling it “fate.” This episode is a direct challenge to stop negotiating with your potential, stop pretending you don’t know, and finally live in integrity—because the time isn’t “someday.” It’s now. Resources: —Get My Breakup 5 Day Audio Series and Workbook: www.createthelove.com/breakupaudio —Get My Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://markgroves.com/book —Explore My Courses: https://markgroves.com/courses Follow me and my work here: —Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove Have A Question? —Have a Question For Mark That You’d Like To Hear Answered on the Podcast? Leave us a Voice Note Here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TheMarkGrovesPodcast If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://ask.markgroves.com Drop us a note at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello! This episode is sponsored by: Institute for Integrative Nutrition: Certified Health Coach Training: Use code MARKGROVES20 for 20% off ALL courses from IIN & Chopra at http://bit.ly/MARKIIN Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

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0:00.0	When you're going through a breakup, it feels like your whole world is unraveling.
0:05.0	And the hardest part isn't just the loss of the relationship, of course.
0:09.0	It's the loss of the story you thought you were living, the story you thought you were going to create.
0:14.0	But I want you to know this.
0:16.0	Heartbreak doesn't have to be the end.
0:18.0	It can actually be the beginning.
0:20.0	It is the beginning if you let it be.
0:23.6	And that's why I created the breakup recovery audio series. It's a five-day journey to help you
0:28.7	move through heartbreak with compassion, clarity, and strength. For just 30 bucks, you'll get
0:33.6	guided audio teachings, powerful stories, daily activities, and a full reflection
0:38.3	workbook to work through alongside me. This isn't about bypassing your pain. That's BS. It's about
0:44.0	giving you the tools to process it, learn from it, and emerge more grounded in who you truly
0:49.3	are. And finally, putting an end to the patterns in relationship that you keep finding yourself
0:53.6	in.
1:00.3	So if you're ready to start healing, head to create the love.com slash breakup audio and begin today for just $30 because heartbreak doesn't define you. Your recovery does.
1:05.9	Hello and welcome to another episode of the Mark Groves podcast. For those of you who do not know me,
1:11.5	I am obsessed with understanding human behavior. And I really believe that so much of our
1:16.4	understanding comes from the frictions that we have and the relationships that we have with other
1:20.6	people, but also things like substances and devices. Of course, our technology. I think that's
1:26.5	become a really magnifying place to look
1:29.5	at the work we need to do. And I'm really mostly obsessed with understanding what holds humans back
1:35.4	from becoming the best possible version of themselves. And why do we tend to wait to become better
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