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The Free Man

#491 - Is self love keeping you unhappy and overweight?

The Free Man

Ben Coomber

Self-improvement, Education, Science, Natural Sciences, Business, Entrepreneurship

4.81.2K Ratings

🗓️ 2 January 2020

⏱️ 36 minutes

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Summary

Self love and self care are big topics in the mental health discussion around nutrition and fitness. But as nutrition coaches and teachers we see some issues in how this is being applied. See, self-soothing isn't self-love / self-care, self-soothing an emotional response to an external stimulus, compared to a logical response to on-going issues one might be facing, self-love. This is a key distinction to make as one equals long term progress, the other short term progress. Join us as we define the terms, explain the terms, and equip you with skills to practice self love in the right way so you can get more success with your fitness and health goals.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey everyone Ben Cooper Radio how an earth are you doing Tom is with me on the show Tom good morning

0:06.4

Good morning Ben how are you doing we're good we're moving fast today Tom jumped on the podcast and he was like Ben

0:13.2

can we podcast quick today I forgot to ring the gas man I need to pick it on my

0:17.4

shopping I need to do all this stuff we're recording just before Christmas

0:21.0

and we want to get in this podcast because a really interesting topic came up

0:26.0

just before Christmas that Tom brought up around self-care

0:29.8

and self-love and the language and the actions that we all do and perform to look after ourselves.

0:36.7

And going into 2020, me and Tom and everyone that works within our businesses, everything that we do on social media we want you

0:44.8

to have the best year next year we want 2020 to be one that is productive that moves

0:51.8

you forward that brings good things into your life and I think

0:55.2

this conversation around self-care and self-love is quite fascinating because there's some

1:00.3

key distinctions that Tom really nicely defined on an email that we sent out to

1:06.7

our nutrition education email and yeah we're going to have a little ramble on that today.

1:12.0

Yeah, if you don going to have a little ramble on that today. Yeah, if you don't follow the BTN emails by the way you should, I think they're my best content, so head to the BTM website and you can sign up there.

1:21.5

But anyway, so let's all started a couple of weeks ago when I saw, of all things, an e-comic on Facebook, because I like scrolling through memes and that. And this e-comic put forward a really good idea.

1:36.6

And I just like stating that that's where I've got it from,

1:38.8

because this isn't my idea.

1:40.0

This isn't something that I've thought of from whole cloth, but it is something that I think can be developed.

1:46.0

And this is the idea that the language that most people have around the concept of self-care isn't quite correct.

1:53.5

So usually when people think, oh, I'm doing some self-care,

1:57.2

what actions they tend to be taken in that time

2:01.4

tend to be things like, I'm gonna have a glass of wine. I'm going to go and order a

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