Provision is a huge part of a man's identity, and it's clearly a, we're commissioned to provide for our family, you know, financially and physically.

And yet it does seem like this is what's considered reasonable provision is going to vary from, I think, like, person to person.

And I always find it interesting that when you start paying attention to how both men and

women view, like, sufficient provision, it's like there's, it, it seems like it goes beyond,

you know, the like, hey, if you have food and water, be there with content.

You know, like, that's very few people's, like, actual standard for provision.

And we hear this a lot from listeners.

And then you also just hear it when you're, like I said, listening for it in church, you know, locally.

You'll hear that tension of from, from women, my husband works too much, right? His job, he's a, they're sending him there.

They're sending him here. He's long, long days at the office, long shifts. He's picking up

extra shifts, you know, sometimes when he doesn't need to.

And a frustration in what sometimes is considered, which actually might be like abundant

provision, right?

Like they're actually providing like above and beyond.

And maybe the woman's feeling a lack of physical presence, right, and emotional support.

But then it seems like just as often, you'll hear maybe more often, the frustration coming

from the wife of feeling like she's not provided for sufficiently.

And in fact, she has to bear a lot of the weight or feels like she's carrying the burden

of some of the financial provision because of, you know, a lack of the weight or feels like she's carrying the burden of some of the financial provision

because of, you know, a lack of provision she feels from her husband. And so we've been talking

a lot about this. And it really, I feel like we've gone through a handful of seasons in our 10

years of marriage. You know, now that we've been married 10 years, we can look back over a little

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